The formation of the oxide ion, from oxygen atom requires first an exothermic and then an endothermic step as shown below :
Thus process of formation of in gas phase is unfavourable even though
is isoelectronic with neon. It is due to the fact that
Electron repulsion outweighs the stability gained by achieving noble gas configuration
ion has comparatively smaller size than oxygen atom
Oxygen is more electronegative
Addition of electron in oxygen results in larger size of the ion.
Factual.
Due to small size of Oxygen atom, there are large interelectronic repulsions when it is added with two additional electrons.
These interelectronic repulsions outweigh the noble gas configuration achieved by the oxide ion and hence the overall process is endothermic.
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